Sacred Celebration

If you know me, you may already know that I love Sacred Celebration! Sacred Celebration is a divine practice of presence, noticing, naming, and practicing agency.

We start every session with Celebrations because they are that important! This practice isn’t to wash over or ignore any of the sticky or difficult stuff. It is to highlight and really note what is working, what we are proud of, excited about, and what is making life worth living at the moment. Naming the good stuff usually helps us recognize and create more of it.

Ceremony sustains us. Joy feeds and nourishes us. Celebration has taught me that no matter what is happening there are glimmers of magic, of hope, of humanity, of wisdom, and of possibility, and so long as I notice them, they can uplift and encourage me.

Listening & Intuition

Listening is powerful. Whole-hearted listening alone can create space for revelations, connections, it can help us hear, notice, and shift beliefs.

In these sessions, I am listening deeply to you, to myself, to my intuition, and to our guiding Spirits. With an open heart and an open mind, I listen. I sit, I hear, I observe, and give my full attention. I breath into what is said and unsaid.

What you say can be magic, what you have within you is wisdom. And listening to that sparks more wisdom, more magic!

In Spirit Guided sessions, I open the sacred channel of intuition within and around me and drop in completely. Trusting my support system as I go. This is part of what makes galvanizing possible, deep listening and intuition, following the golden threads.

Loving Detachment

While I hold you and the space we co-create, I also hold myself and all the magic we call in. I stand rooted in my knowing as I honor yours, open to all directions, with no attachment to outcome, no desired agenda except to serve our highest and best.

During these sessions, I am in service to our individual and collective Spirits as well as the desires you bring forth. This allows for experimentation, for feedback, for directions to change and shift as we do, for feelings to flow freely.

As a Sacred Galvanizer, I often see so many ideas, connections, and possibilities sparking all around me. Non-attachment allows us to enthusiastically explore with pure delight, informed by desire.

This puts us in greater consent with each other and the moment, which is part of why I say these sessions are co-created.

Humility & Resilience

Having humility is key because I honestly have no idea what is best for you. I don’t know how you should proceed or move through the world. Thankfully it’s not my job to know, it’s my job to be present.

I am here to hold space, to create room for you to speak, be heard, listen, to play and practice. To celebrate, explore, and experiment. I’m here to offer what I have. While I don’t have the answers, I do have resources, reflections, practices, and tools.

In these sessions I help create space for you to drop into your own knowing. I can guide you as you practice trusting yourself, your body, your rooted knowing. I am here to reflect and reframe as we walk together through these unknown landscapes.

This practice of trusting and walking mindfully step by step with humility is what builds the resilience that helps us continue walking our paths.

Lifelong Learner

It feels really important to say that I have done formal training, and that training was fundamentally flawed and even harmful at times. Like many formal trainings, it is founded in white supremacy with transphobia and homophobia very present. This experience really invited me to trust my own rooted knowing and see how incredibly valuable my lived experiences are.

So while I have received formal coaching training through Layla Martin’s intensive year long VITA Coaching Program, much of my learning has been through taking other classes, enjoying workshops, and seeing one on one practitioners. Learning about and experiencing different modalities, styles, and practices has really informed how I show up as a practitioner.

Even my time working as a server in New York was a bountiful time full of applicable lessons. Interacting with hundreds of guests every night at cocktail bars and farm to table restaurants was invaluable practice in reading a room, anticipating needs, and learning when to take charge and when to step back.

Formal training is valuable, but by no means a full education. What I have gained through lived experience and continue to learn everyday is what influences my work most.

Pro Domme Experience

My experience as a Pro Domme (or Dominatrix) was a masterclass in how to meet folks where they are. The art of domination is about conscious power dynamics, embodied play, focused energy, understanding incentive and desire. It is also about creating consent, clear communication, and creative pathways through unknown, sometimes scary space.

Dominating requires a lot of focused attention as well as adept flexibility. The key for me is to be connected and attuned to my submissive/playmate. To create an energetic connection between us so that the exchange flows with ease and understanding. Syncing up with each other so we could move and play together, improvising as we go. Coaching is quite similar.

My time as a Pro Domme informs my coaching on so many levels. It’s where I mastered creating spaciousness, mono-tasking, practicing non-judgement, reading body language, and tuning into desires, especially when those desires are uncomfortable or feel alarming to the nervous system.

I am proud to say I am a kink aware, BDSM informed, SWer friendly practitioner. As a kinkster myself, I know how hard it can be to find folks who really understand the ins and outs.

Art-making & Design Education

My formal education is in fine arts and communication design. I attended the School of the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston and Parsons School of Design. I studied printmaking, bookmaking, embroidery, typography, illustration, photography, paper-making, performance art, and all types of design including publication, user experience, and user interface.

The practices from art-making and design often come into play in my coaching sessions. This is where my love of experimentation and vivid visuals comes from. My excitement about symbols, poetry, concepts, my ability to see future outcomes and my dedication to flow and process. These are all things I developed and practiced in the studio.

Creativity is a way of life. I believe we are all creative beings. It can be seen in how we put words together, create an image, set a table, or move through a meditation. It’s so present.

My Own Spiritual Practice

I am committed to exploration, to ritual, to my own inner wisdom and knowing. A student of the divine, I have been fascinated by ceremony and magic since I can remember. While I am no longer religious, my Catholic upbringing introduced me to sacrament, sacred symbolism, and parables. It instilled in me a real awe at the mystery of the Spiritual realm and the power of the Divine.

I have a rich spiritual practice that involves meditation, breathwork, embroidery, art making, and sound making. I feel very connected to my well, bright Ancestors, beloved Transcestors, blessed Transcendants, and guiding Spirits. With their guidance, I explore astral realms, internal landscapes, and parallel Universes.

It is through these channels that I have come to know and value my shapeshifting ability. It is a gift and in service to my purpose here on Earth. Which is to act as a bridge, a leader, a student, a peer, a warrior, a sacred galvanizer, and great life experimenter.